Sunday, June 26, 2016

The new grandbaby!

 
 
Grand baby # 14 is here!
 
 
I went and stayed the night with older siblings. We had a good time.  Pancakes for breakfast, playing with toys and making clay!
 


 
One of the sweetest parts was when Mom sent me a photo of the new arrival.  Older sister couldn't stop exclaiming  "He's Sooo Cute!" over and over.  I loved it!  He finally came home! 
 

She is just as delighted with him in person!




 
All the grand parents were in agreement.  He's very cute.  The ultrasound just before birth predicted a 9 pound baby but he wasn't quite that big....8 lb 11 oz....but 21 1/2 inches long.  He's a big boy and, gratefully, he is eating and sleeping very well. 
 
It was a couple of days late, but I got the quilt done and over for him. 
 


 
We are so grateful for the miracle of birth, and for all of our sweet family!

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Celebrations

This cutie had a birthday so we went out to lunch!  She is such fun...a consummate conversationalist and delighted with everything!


Having fun together!

See what I mean?
 When we moved into  the condo, our first 'calling' was to attend the English class that our ward runs as helpers.  Neither of the teachers speak any Spanish, so it was a great help to them to have someone there who does.  Rod quickly had other calls, but I have continued to go and come to love not only the teachers but also the students.  We shut down during the summer so we had a pot luck dinner as an end of the year celebration.  They are such fun ladies.  (We have men students occasionally, but not nearly as regularly as the sisters)
There was food for dozens of people...delicious!




We have a great time!
Rod has been working and training  for a long time in preparation for this hike.  He has wanted to hike from rim to rim in the Grand Canyon for several years.  The time finally came!  He and Alicia did it together.  I dropped them off at the south Kaibab trail head at 5:30 am. 



 They did great for the first few hours, then Rod began having pain in his knee area...the IT band.
It slowed him down quite a bit, but they persevered!


They finally made it out at 11 :30 pm.  I was  so Relieved to have them out and safe.
I had rather a lot of waiting and worrying time at that trail head.  It made me so very grateful for a loving husband and daughter.  Life is rather fragile which we often forget.  There was a quote of C S Lewis in a book I read recently.  He said that  bereavement is  part of love.  I had never thought of that before, but it's true.  However, thanks to our Heavenly Father and His plan for our happiness, that bereavement is a temporary state. No mater how things turn out in this life, we can plan on a 'happily ever after' ending to our story. No mater how hard our now is, it will all be worth it!  I am so thankful for this knowledge and testimony.  I love you!

Monday, June 13, 2016

Missing May

I think there is a movie called missing May.....  Apparently I have been! Sooo here it is!

Well, actually, this was taken in Apr. but his birthday is in May.  This was his surprise cake...I got there late at night, rather hoping he would be in bed but he wasn't so he saw it.  He really did like it...just not having his photo taken

 
There is the smile!
 

The theme is Paw Patrol...just in case you don't have preschool boys around to educate you. 
Rod had a difficult time cause he was looking for Papa Troll...We still aren't sure which we are hearing.
 My sweet Mom decided an expedition was in order so brothers David and Duane rented an RV and she treated us to a trip to Branson Missouri.  We had a great time.
This is us in the back of the RV


David and Duane did all the driving...going straight through ,,,about 22 hours.

We were glad Emily had a 'family situation' and could come.
 Once there, we checked into a very nice time share and had a good rest and sleep.  The next day we saw a show called "6"...six brothers that sang and entertained us acapella.  We also enjoyed some other activities.
Trying to 'act his age'.

On your mark

get set, Go!  We so enjoyed getting a long visit with Bita.  She flew down for the trip.


I thought he would have had enough driving.


Watch out!




 I have a few more photos of the drivers but not of everyone...my reflexes just aren't that good anymore.

Then we went to Ripley's Believe it or Not museum.  Fascinating!

Shaking hands!
We enjoyed dinner at this BBQ place....although we were the only ones there and were a bit nervous to start with.



 
Sunday we went to Sacrament meeting. I was quite impressed with the talk given by a deacon aged young man.  His family are performers, but his talk was excellent! A great ward.
 
We then went and listened to the sales pitch which helped pay for our accommodations.  Not too painful. 
 
That afternoon we saw the Chinese acrobats perform.   The photos are terrible...but the show was amazing.
 
 
Balance and juggling

See what I mean?

This guy was 'the star' I think.  You can see how strong and still he is because any movement is blurry.  He did hand stands on top of a stack of 8 chairs and a pile of blocks..probably 20+ in the air.

Here they are diving through hoops


About 8 people on 1 bicycle....Wow!
Then we drove home again...very glad we left when we did as we were ahead of the storm that produced several tornados.
Love our Home sweet Home!
Thanks Mom for a wonderful time!
 

Friday, April 29, 2016

April updates and thoughts

A quarter of the year is gone!  Rather shocking. 
Here are some of our activities:
Women's Conference and supper with two of my girls!  We watched conference with Grandma at her house.  I loved it.  It was so much more relaxing and fun...though we may visit more without the 'public' to restrain us.  The girls chose a fancy restaurant in Gilbert...or Chandler...anyway it was busy but we enjoyed the wait because we got to visit a lot more.  We tasted unusual and fun crostini, sandwiches and salad.  The company was the best part!


Nephew Jesse came to visit.  Such a treat....although I forgot to go pick him up at the airport and he had to wait for me....argh.  I hate that my memory is so bad.  (I hear echoes of my Dad when I say that because he complained of the same thing, but I think my memory problem has been a lot longer term than his was) We enjoyed catching up with this great kid...and were all surprised it had been over 4 years since we had seen him.

 

  Rod and I stripped the citrus off our trees early in the month and I hauled it down to Sara and Todd's yard sale which was to benefit a little friend  diagnosed with leukemia...I got there a bit late to help much with the sale, but I did help clean their house afterward which was fun.
 We are in AZ's spring and I just had to do my canning.  Cucumbers were on sale so the bread and butter pickles and relish are done.  (people might still want my potato salad this next year and other relishes just aren't the same and the last bottle is open in the fridge!)  I also made some grapefruit marmalade.  I love that stuff.

For Christmas, Geneva gave us an "experience".  We finally got it on the schedule and went to our glass blowing class with them...
so much fun!  They almost have to do things assembly style with a crowd of beginners and only an hour or two, so the teachers did most of the work but I still thoroughly enjoyed it.  Here is my flower in my house plant.
 
This is Rod's so you can see how it looks.

We also ate at a little place that sells fried chicken and donuts!  The food was very tasty!

My garden is growing beautifully!  I got some great heads of broccoli, but it is now too warm for it so I pulled half of the plants...that accounts for the bare spot.  I planted cantaloupe in the space...I even planned that ahead of time!
I have also harvested a large bag of spinach, some lettuce, a few green beans, and some basil too.  Also growing are tomatoes, carrots, parsley, swiss chard, zucchini, rosemary  cucumbers, and whatever else I scooped seeds out of for dinner.  (that is how I grow melon, squash and various beans)


There are flowers too...this canna lily is especially lovely!

 
 Rod and I have been blessed with opportunities to serve ward members a lot lately...and I'm serious when I say blessed.  It seems quite a number of people just aren't able or motivated to keep their homes clean and orderly. I really do enjoy making a big difference cleaning a space and I feel it makes them healthier and safer!   I have been truly blessed that I was raised by a Mom (and Dad) who taught me how to do this and created the expectation that it would be done.  Thanks Mom!!! I have felt glad to be able and willing to help, and Rod has done the same for a brother.   We mustn't take this for granted and, even though it is more work getting mundane tasks done with the 'help' of little kids, their involvement is very important.  Some people are just so overwhelmed with their own mess that they don't know where to start...others don't even see the mess.
These observations connected with something I heard on NPR the other day....a study to see if spending more money on failing schools increased student achievement....It Didn't!!!  Almost twice as much money was spent trying to educate kids in a 'failing' school and it made almost no difference in the drop out rate and other measures of achievement.  What did correlate was the poverty level.  As I thought about that, I felt that "Poverty" is less about how much people earn, and more about the behaviors that decrease ability to earn....Gross generalization of course... but things like a lack of work ethic, parental devaluing of education/learning to read, expectation that somebody 'owes' one their living rather than that one ought to have to work for what one gets, and of course alcohol, drugs and other addictions exacerbate the problems.  There is, of course a large percentage of people that have just suffered from hard life circumstances....but when I think of my husband's childhood...he had every excuse to end up in poverty.  What seems to have made the most difference is his commitment to living the Gospel...it truly improves the lives of it's people.  Just keep sharing!  (It is clear from our interesting election this year that we can't expect government to solve many of our problems) We are sooooo Blessed!